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When your partner has convinced you that you deserve this, that this is love, and you've probably been conditioned your whole life by parents and family who model this treatment.. When your memory starts failing due to the abuse, when you stop trusting yourself, when you don't even know what steps you would take to disentangle yourself from their grasp.. When they're loving and wonderful 90% of the time and use intermittent reinforcement to trap you in the cycle of abuse.....