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What is "trashing," this colloquial term that expresses so much,
yet explains so little? It is not disagreement; it is not conflict; it
is not opposition. These are perfectly ordinary phenomena which, when
engaged in mutually, honestly, and not excessively, are necessary to keep
an organism or organization healthy and active.